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Question of the Week :
What do you do when your spouse/partner does not listen?

This is when you must get in CSI-mode (investigate) and find out why your spouse is not listening to you. First of all, your tone (i.e. loving or rude) you use with your spouse will determine how responsive he/she will be towards you. Therefore, you must focus on your presentation towards your spouse. Once you have the proper presentation, then it is your mate's responsibility to recognize the importance of listening to you. Being a good listener requires one to be unselfish in order to clearly understand one's mate. When your spouse listens to you, let him/her know you appreciate it by expressing words of appreciation and/or your actions of affection. Such encouragement will increase your spouse's attentiveness when you speak.